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VIII
Sex & Tha Period

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By Chrys D.

“All I Wanna do is Zooma Zoom Zoom Zoom…”

… ina Poom Poom.

In my personal unpopular opinion, sex is STRICTLY PROHIBITED while I’m on my cycle! The pain that already comes with my PCOS/Endo would never allow it. And as clingy as I am with my gorgeous girlfriend, sometimes I don’t even want to be touched!

However, very common in the sexual diaspora, receiving your ‘red wings’ or ‘parting the red sea’ is most definitely a thing! Even beyond the potential ‘sexual’ association, we all want a partner (male or female) to morally support us in that inevitable time of the month. And sometimes, that means doing the ‘No Pants Dance!’


It has been said that sex during menstruation has certain benefits. Among these are:

  • An increased arousal

  • Strengthened connection with your partner

  • Relief from cramps

  • Possible shorter periods

To be transparent (& maybe a little TMI), I have experienced lessened cramps from self-gratification in the last couple days of my cycle. But that’s neither here nor there.

Everyone’s body is quite different! Even if we don’t agree on engaging in this act (or not), STAYING SAFE should always be top priority! 

PERIOD! Always KNOW THY CUCCI, SIS!


Love, & Thanks for Vibing with ThaMonthly.

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