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ThaMonthly 1.29.23 IX Tha Ovulation Station ___ By Chrys D. “Smoking on a backwood cause I miss my ex… …now I’m ovulating & I need rough sex. So for starters just to be transparent? I never have, never desired to, nor never will know when I’m ovulating. Reason being is because once I realized conceiving a child wasn’t really possible, I could give a FUCK about ovulation. Quite frankly, I’m well overdue for a doctor to snatch all of this bootleg equipment we so affectionately call ‘lady parts,’ LMAO. This is also NOT me saying I’ve never felt it happening, or sensed it coming. You kinda can’t help it when you have a natural intuition with your body. Being plagued with PCOS & her best friend endometriosis, I’ve experienced wild levels of ovulation. Literally as quaint & beautiful like butterflies flowing freely in my pelvis. Or as unfathomably excruciating as hot daggers bludgeoning my uterus! Couple this with an appetite that gluttony would drop a jaw to & an intense sex

  ThaMonthly   1.9.23 VIII Sex & Tha Period ___ By Chrys D. “All I Wanna do is Zooma Zoom Zoom Zoom…” … ina Poom Poom. In my personal unpopular opinion, sex is STRICTLY PROHIBITED while I’m on my cycle! The pain that already comes with my PCOS/Endo would never allow it. And as clingy as I am with my gorgeous girlfriend, sometimes I don’t even want to be touched! However, very common in the sexual diaspora, receiving your ‘red wings’ or ‘parting the red sea’ is most definitely a thing! Even beyond the potential ‘sexual’ association, we all want a partner (male or female) to morally support us in that inevitable time of the month. And sometimes, that means doing the ‘No Pants Dance!’ It has been said that sex during menstruation has certain benefits. Among these are: An increased arousal Strengthened connection with your partner Relief from cramps Possible shorter periods To be transparent (& maybe a little TMI), I have experienced lessened cramps from self-gratification in the l

  ThaMonthly   12.14.22 VII Tha Period & Tha Partner ___ By Chrys D. ‘Loving you whether…” …times are good or bad, happy or sad. As women (& honestly just as humans), we all desire someone who WANTS to deal with us. Someone who doesn’t mind ‘bringing up the rear’ or ‘taking up the slack’ when something goes awry. You know, the whole ‘sickness & in health’ bit. But Chile sometimes sadly that’s just NOT the case. In all fairness, everyone wasn’t created the exact same. Some of us are natural born providers. Some of us are worker bees who refuse to make ourselves available for emotional attachment. But some of us are natural nurturers. Or maybe just strongly possess the ‘kind’ gene, & to have that is truly a blessing. I’ve fortunately & unfortunately been on both sides of this spectrum. In my last relationship, I was neglected in every way possible. I experienced many lonely & terrifying ER visits. And sadly, on one of the most important days of my life (my fibroid